Sean of the South: Funny Valentine

 [[{“value”:” By Sean Dietrich It was a Wednesday. I know this because on Wednesdays the Baptist church had family suppers. And although I wasn’t exactly a faithful Sunday churchgoer, I was a devout mid-week supper-eater. That night, I stood in line behind a girl, holding my plate. She was funny. She had so much personality she hummed like a neon light. Later, I sat beside her during service. That week, there was an out-of-town preacher. The kind with big hair, sweat rags, and nice shoes. He invited people to walk the aisle to get born again. My pal, Craig,—who lost his religion every football season—recommitted for his thirtieth time. He said he felt something in the air that night. I did too. When service let out, the girl wasn’t ready to go home. Neither was I. So, I suggested we drive. She liked the idea—though I’ll never know why. I pointed my vehicle east, we headed for nowhere, traveling as slow as my engine would run. The miles of pines made her more chatty. She propped her feet on my dashboard and let the words roll. She talked about things. About how she saw the world, about her favorite kind of mustard, about religion, and the proper way to eat fried chicken. I gave one-syllable responses because I didn’t want to interrupt. She had a voice that sounded like Escambia County in June. By the time we landed in Port Saint Joe, her one-sided conversation had faded to a stop.... Read More

“Time and Tide wait for no one.”  Geoffrey Chaucer, Canterbury Tales

 [[{“value”:” By Kirk McCarley A coaching colleague recently posted about time, making a distinction between the time on our watches, clocks, and calendars (chronos) vs. a more spiritual dimension of the concept (Kairos).  His piece struck me as it paralleled a message I heard at a worship service where the pastor correlated the two. Clock time, chronos, is measurable, where the barometer can be evaluated through timekeeping devices such as an hourglass or calendars.  Comparatively, the latter time, Kairos, is a more abstract notion that goes outside the elements of time movement.  It can include those “time standing still” moments like falling in love, delivering a game-winning hit, or offering valuable wisdom to others going through difficult seasons. Providing Kairos time suggests stepping out of the rush of everyday life to offer focused, spirit-led attention that creates space for divine encounters, deep relational bonding, and impactful divine work, even if it’s just for a sacred moment.  Mary Kay Ash offered that “No matter how busy you are, you must take time to make the other person feel important.” What do you see as your availability for Kairos?  Consider our rapid-paced world where we are commonly overscheduled.  There is appointment after appointment, commitment after commitment, with little reserve built in.  Only so much time exists, and if you have the fortune of being in demand, many people want a piece of yours.  The problem with existing fully on a schedule, a chronos, is that it has limits.  There are only 168 hours in... Read More

A Pastor’s Ponderings: This is the Day

 [[{“value”:” By Rev. Pete Hyde   He stands before a large, empty, stark white canvas with paints and brushes at the ready.  It is time to create.  With the skill of a master artist, he begins to paint.  He starts with a pure blue and brushes the top of the canvas.  He smiles as if gaining strength and inspiration from the first few brush strokes.  With a sense of mission, he changes brushes and colors and is now fully immersed in His task.  Hues of reds, yellows, oranges, browns and greens begin to fill the canvas with so much color it would take away the breath of all who would see.  Grays and browns and whites break the rainbow of colors and add contrast and a depth of beauty that only a master could portray. Across the azure blue, he sweeps strands of grey and white.  He steps back for a moment to look upon his creation.  It seems the painting goes on forever and flows off the edges of the canvas and fills his entire field of vision.  But something was missing.  Even though it was brilliant, it was just a lifeless canvas.  Yes, it was pretty and inspiring, but it was a flat picture.  Something else was needed. He raises His hand and speaks life into the canvas.  The grey strands of clouds streak across the pure, blue sky driven by a crisp north wind.  The reds, yellows, oranges, greens and browns come to life as the wind rustles... Read More

Café Thirty-A Christmas Charity Ball Raises Record-Breaking $90,905 for Caring and Sharing of South Walton

 [[{“value”:” Café Thirty-A’s Annual Christmas Charity Ball raised a record-breaking $90,905 for Caring and Sharing of South Walton. The holiday event held on Saturday, December 6, 2025, simultaneously celebrated the restaurant’s 30-year anniversary. Presented by honorary sponsors Coastal Luxury Real Estate, Earl Bacon Agency, Thomas Howell Ferguson P.A., and the Ellis Family, the sold-out event welcomed over 250 guests to the festively decorated restaurant, courtesy of Palms 30A. Attendees were greeted with complimentary valet parking, sponsored by All Access Coach and Leasing, and a glass of champagne, courtesy of Clear Title and Escrow. Inside, event goers enjoyed heavy hors d’oeuvres, a gourmet dinner buffet, cash bar sponsored by All Access Coaching and Leasing, and a variety of desserts courtesy of Haney Holloway, LLC. Sponsors and VIP attendees also received exclusive access to a pre-party event provided by The Watson Group. Throughout the night, guests had the opportunity to view and bid on various pieces of art, jewelry, gift baskets, and luxurious items featured in the extensive silent auction. There was also an Epic Photo Co. photo booth, courtesy of A BOHEME Design, along with music from DJ Casey, sponsored by Maranta Copy Co., who kept the Barlovento Dance Floor going all night long. Santa also made a surprise appearance at this year’s event, courtesy of Barnes Capital Group, and captured photos with guests, sponsored by Corcoran Reverie. New this year, an upstairs lounge, sponsored by Engel & Volkers 30A Beaches, offered guests extra space to relax and mingle. In honor... Read More

Forty Years at the Table

 [[{“value”:” How Bud & Alley’s grew from a surf-town dream into Seaside’s enduring gathering place By Zandra Wolfgram At Bud & Alley’s Waterfront Restaurant, the ritual is familiar. The sun lowers toward the Gulf, glasses are raised and a bell rings from above, marking another day shared. For 40 years, that simple moment has defined Bud & Alley’s — not just as a restaurant, but as a place where Seaside gathers. Founded by Dave Rauschkolb and Scott Witcoski, two 24-year-old surfing buddies with more enthusiasm than experience, Bud & Alley’s opened at a time when Seaside itself was just beginning to take shape. Few could have predicted that a casual beachfront restaurant in a town with barely a dozen houses would become one of Northwest Florida’s most enduring culinary landmarks. The name itself reflected the founders’ lighthearted approach. Witcoski named the restaurant after his cat, Alley, and Seaside founder Robert Davis’ dachshund, Bud — a playful beginning that hinted at the welcoming spirit to come. From the outset, Bud & Alley’s was designed to feel approachable, unpretentious and deeply rooted in its surroundings. As Seaside grew, Bud & Alley’s grew with it. What began as a simple Gulf-front restaurant evolved thoughtfully over time, helping pioneer the farm- and sea-to-table movement along Scenic Highway 30A while maintaining its relaxed, come-as-you-are feel. Fresh regional seafood, carefully sourced ingredients and consistent quality earned the restaurant a loyal following that now spans generations. 1 of 4 “For me, this milestone is really about gratitude,”... Read More

Top 10 Valentine’s Day Songs

 [[{“value”:” Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love in all its forms: romantic, passionate, tender, and timeless. Few things capture those emotions quite like music. Over the years, certain songs have become synonymous with Valentine’s Day because of their heartfelt lyrics, unforgettable melodies, and emotional depth. Here are the top 10 Valentine’s Day songs and what makes each one truly special. “All of Me” – John Legend This modern classic is a raw and honest declaration of unconditional love. With simple piano accompaniment and deeply personal lyrics, “All of Me” resonates because it embraces imperfections and vulnerability, making it a favorite for weddings and Valentine’s playlists alike. “At Last” – Etta James Few songs capture the feeling of love finally fulfilled like “At Last.” Etta James’s powerful, soulful vocals paired with lush orchestration make this song a timeless anthem for enduring romance. “Can’t Help Falling in Love” – Elvis Presley This gentle ballad remains one of the most iconic love songs ever written. Its simple message—that love is inevitable, combined with Elvis’s warm delivery, gives it an innocence that continues to charm listeners across generations. “Thinking Out Loud” – Ed Sheeran Ed Sheeran’s promise of lifelong devotion has made this song a modern Valentine’s staple. Its lyrics imagine love that grows stronger with time, which resonates deeply with couples dreaming of a shared future. “My Heart Will Go On” – Celine Dion Forever linked to the film Titanic, this song is about love that transcends time and loss. Celine Dion’s soaring... Read More

South Walton Live Music Scene February 2026

 [[{“value”:” Old Florida Fish House Weekdays For over a decade, Old Florida Fish House has proudly featured local live music. Catch artists playing inside the coveted bar and lounge area as well as in the large outdoor dining space situated among the palm and oak trees under the twinkling lights next to Eastern Lake throughout the week. Dueling pianos Thursday through Saturday. Visit www.oldfloridafishhouse.com for more info. FOOW Live Music Fridays and Sunday Brunch  Enjoy live music on Friday nights, as well as Sundays for Brunch featuring bottomless mimosas at FOOW – Fish Out of Water. The Gulf front restaurant invites you to delicious dining paired with live music. Visit foow30a.com. AJ’s Grayton Brunch and Live Music AJ’s is the place to be to celebrate all things Sunday Funday in Grayton Beach! Recharge your weekend at our live music brunch with the talented duo, Christon Birge Duo every Sunday at 12 p.m. for a delightful morning filled with delicious food, refreshing drinks, and engaging tunes. Have a mimosa or go all in with their famous Build Your Own Bloody Mary bar, then enjoy live music from The Pickled Pickers 5-8 p.m. Join in the fun on Karaoke Night starting at 8 p.m. every Thursday night (also Prime Rib Night). Check ajsgrayton.com for live music throughout the week. Shunk Gulley Shunk Gulley is a premier location on 30A for live music, bringing in artists from around the Gulf coast and beyond. Whether you just want to relax to indie guitar players... Read More

How a Move to the Sunshine State Could Impact Your Estate Plan

 [[{“value”:” By Jon Carroll My mother, who was born and raised in Florida, used to quip that no one lived here until air conditioning and mosquito control became prevalent.  Today, climate and pest control, along with beautiful beaches, a temperate climate and no state income tax, among other things, continue to draw new residents to Florida.  Perhaps you have just moved to the area from out of state, or maybe you are a visitor contemplating turning your vacation destination into your permanent home.  If you already have a trust or will from another state, or own property elsewhere, you should know how Florida law may affect your existing arrangements. A common question is whether your documents, created in another state, are still valid after you move.  The simple answer is yes.  Relocation from one state to another does not invalidate your will, trust, or power of attorney, but some issues could arise. For example, your trust likely contains a “governing law” clause that determines which state’s law controls the trust’s validity, interpretation, and administration.  However, if there is no longer any real connection to the original state, a court could decide that Florida is now the primary place of administration and apply Florida law to administrative issues despite an out-of-state governing law clause. One area where an out-of-state trust or will is often affected by Florida’s laws is with regard to homestead property.  Florida has very strong homestead protections, and our laws reflect a strong public policy in favor of... Read More

Why Red? It’s a Love Story

 [[{“value”:” By Danica LaFaire, FISH Window Cleaning How a favorite color, a family-first decision, and a belief in opportunity built Fish Window Cleaning. If you’ve lived here long enough, you’ve probably seen it. A red bucket on the sidewalk. A red truck parked just off the curb. A team quietly at work, making something clearer. What you may not have wondered is why red. At Fish Window Cleaning, the color isn’t a marketing decision or a branding exercise. It’s something far simpler — and far more meaningful. Red is Linda’s favorite color — Linda Merrick, Mike’s wife and partner in the earliest days of the business. In 1978, after being unexpectedly laid off from his job in banking, Mike Merrick found himself at a crossroads familiar to many families: start over, or stand still. With a future suddenly uncertain, Mike chose to buy a small window-cleaning route from a local cleaner — about 100 accounts, no fanfare, and no guarantees. What he did have was work ethic, faith, and the quiet confidence of someone who believed he could build something better. Linda believed it too. She has spoken openly about knowing Mike was a hard worker — someone with initiative, discipline, and the willingness to grow a business through effort and persistence. That shared belief became the foundation on which Fish was built. When it came time to name the business and decide how it would show up in the world, Mike and Linda made that decision together. They chose... Read More

Rotary Club of Destin Announces Grant Funding Opportunity for Local Nonprofits

 [[{“value”:” The Rotary Club of Destin invites local nonprofit organizations to apply for grant funding as part of its ongoing mission to create positive change and strengthen the local community. As a service organization made up of professional men and women, the Rotary Club of Destin is committed to humanitarian service, high ethical standards, and fostering peace and goodwill both locally and globally. Through annual fundraisers — including the popular Cajun Crawfish Bash — the club raises funds to reinvest directly into programs and initiatives that align with its priority areas and community needs. “This grant opportunity is about more than funding,” the Rotary Club of Destin President Bekah Wagner said. “It’s an opportunity to partner with organizations doing meaningful work and to expand our collective impact by working together to address critical issues in our community.” Grant applications will be reviewed based on criteria established by the Rotary Club of Destin Board of Directors. Eligible organizations are encouraged to apply and share how their programs support and strengthen the local community. The application deadline is Feb. 13, 2026. For eligibility requirements and to apply, visit: https://forms.gle/NDyc7DCeMy4jkmjR7 The Rotary Club of Destin represents over 55 businessmen and women who are committed to “Service Above Self” and whose mission is to positively change lives through service…across the street and around the world, with emphasis on eradicating hunger and supporting education in our community and internationally. The Rotary Club meets every Tuesday at 7:15 a.m. at Regatta Bay Golf & Country Club.... Read More