By Kirk McCarley, In the 2003 novel, “The Five People You Meet in Heaven,” Mitch Albom charts the life of amusement ride mechanic, Eddie, who loses his life in an amusement park accident. Upon his arrival in heaven, he encounters five of the people who had a significant impact on him while he was alive. Eddie lived much of his own life unfulfilled, that is until he also met those he had influenced or affected most significantly, many of whom went on to have great achievements themselves. Eddie, through his seemingly understated and unknowing acts of service, learns in the afterlife that he provided that opportunity for them. In my vocation as a Career and Life Coach, clients profess a variety of reasons and underlying motivations for seeking services. Some would like to sharpen their communication skills to enhance their performance in job interviews. Others, already in a role of leadership, aim to better their professional presence, to promote to the c-suite. There can still exist a few more, pursuing improvement in life goals: better relationships with family and friends, more effective time management allowing for decreased stress and increased chances for recreation, or improved health and fitness. These motivations eventually point back to a desire for a higher quality life, often defined by more time, better health, or greater financial resources. What is often surprising, however, is that when peeling deeper, a most profound desire of the human heart seems to be the craving to “matter,” to make...
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